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How much is your value?


It was said that a well-known speaker started off his seminar by holding up a $20 bill. In the room of 200, he asked, “Who would like this $20 bill?”

Hands started going up.

He said, “I am going to give this $20 to one of you but first, let me do this.” He proceeded to crumple the dollar bill up.

He then asked, “Who still wants it?”

Still the hands were up in the air.

“Well,” he replied, “What if I do this?” And he dropped it on the ground and started to grind it into the floor with his shoe.

He picked it up, now all crumpled and dirty. “Now who still wants it?” Still the hands went into the air.

“My friends, you have all learned a very valuable lesson. No matter what I did to the money, you still wanted it because it did not decrease in value. It was still worth $20.

Many times in our lives, we fall and may even make a deep plunge, thereby feeling as though we are worthless. But no matter what has happened or what will happen, you will never lose your value. Value yourself, for you are someone special!

Building Rapport

Why is it important to master the art of rapport?

“Alone we can do so little, but together we can do so much.” It’s such that we have to master the art of building rapport with the people around us so that we can solicit their assistance in achieving our goals.

What do you think is the foundation for success in rapport building? How would you usually go about building rapport with the people around you?

Generally we can build rapport with another person either through words, tonality or body language. But in order to accomplish this effectively, we will have to be able to cater to the needs and “preferences” of the other party.

In NLP, we learn that there are four groups of people- visual, auditory, kinesthetic and auditory-digital. By discerning which category of people does a person belong to, you will be capable of “speaking their language” and build good rapport and relationship with them.

Join us for an afternoon of dating your dreams, as you learn how to build rapport with anybody through the application of proven NLP techniques, mastering the fine art of persuasion and influence.

Upcoming Workshop: Dating your Dreams

Date: 7 Feb 2009 (Saturday)
Time: 2.00 pm to 5.00 pm
Venue: Hong Kah North Community Club, 30 Bukit Batok Street 31

Tel: 6567 4048
Email: info@hkntmc.org

Don’t Quit

When things go wrong as they sometimes will;
When the road you’re trudging seems all uphill;
When the funds are low, and the debts are high;
And you want to smile, but you have to sigh;
When care is pressing you down a bit
Rest if you must, but don’t you quit.

Success is failure turned inside out;
The silver tint of the clouds of doubt;
And you can never tell how close you are;
It may be near when it seems afar.
So, stick to the fight when you’re hardest hit-
It’s when things go wrong that you mustn’t quit!

The success story of Richard Branson


Growing Up Branson dropped out of school in 1967 at the age of 16 and started a magazine called Student. He hoped it would be a forum for politically-minded youth. He soon was publishing essays and interviews from such figures as Jean-Paul Sartre, James Baldwin, Alice Walker, and Robert Graves. Despite such a roster of great minds and literary figures, the magazine never made money and seemed bound to fail.

Starting the Business Branson began marketing his next idea in the pages of Student; selling albums at a reduced rate through the mail. It rapidly became a more profitable business than the magazine itself. The staff of Student suddenly found themselves the employees of the Virgin discount record store. “Virgin” because no one had been in business before. Virgin had been going strongly but it was discovered Branson was dodging his tax payments. He was arrested and jailed.

Building an Empire An out-of-court settlement was reached and, determined to keep the balance sheets carefully, Virgin Records was founded in 1973. Mike Oldfield’s progressive “Tubular Bells” was the first record released through Virgin and became an international success. But, it was the signing of the Sex Pistols to his label in 1977 that truly established Virgin Records. Though the Pistols broke up soon after, Virgin became the largest indie label in the world. Bands like the Rolling Stone, Peter Gabriel and UB40 were signed to Virgin.

Over the next six years, Branson started over fifty different companies encompassing everything from filmmaking to air conditioner cleaning. Though he was making more than $17 million dollars from his various companies collectively, Branson insists that money is not the motivation behind his involvement in so many ventures. Rather, he enjoys attempting to do something more effectively than those who have tried before him.

In 1984, Branson started Virgin Atlantic Airlines - a company that would prove to be a great challenge as well as the cause of financial distress. Branson ignored discouraging comments that told him he could never compete with British Airways, and to look to the example of those who had failed before. The reason being that he had observed how airline companies did not look after their customers adequately enough — so he would be the one to bring affordable and enjoyable flights to the public. Virgin Air was immediately recognized for its service and luxury. In-flight massages, hydrotherapy baths and seat-back video screens were all part of the experience on-board a Virgin aircraft.

With fuel prices having doubled in the early ’90s, terrorist attacks making people afraid to fly, and BA launching a campaign to put Branson out of the airline business, Virgin Atlantic struggled to stay afloat. Branson was forced to sell Virgin Records in order to raise enough money to keep Virgin Atlantic and pay off his creditors. The sale of the company that gave him his start was a crushing blow.

From this point on, Branson developed a new approach to business called “branded venture capital”. Through this method, Branson licenses the well-known Virgin name and logo in exchange for a controlling interest in the venture. Consequently, Branson has his company’s name fixed to more than 200 different companies, among which are Virgin Bridal, Virgin Publishing, a blimp company and a modeling agency.

Branson is known for his unusual business practices (no central headquarters, no board meetings, and he can’t operate a computer), his showy publicity stunts (like driving a tank into Times Square and buzzing over Big Ben in an Airbus jet), and his adventurous exploits (he was the first person to cross the Atlantic in a hot air balloon and has attempted three times to fly it around the world). It might be thought that such an approach to business could have ruined him, but Virgin is a towering $5 billion dollar giant. And Branson keeps dreaming for the future. In discussing the prospect of starting a shuttle service into space, Branson has said, “Why not? It’s virgin territory.”

(From unknown source)

Set a Date with your Dreams


Have you ever felt a sense of emptiness or lack of fulfillment in your life? Have you ever encountered a situation whereby you achieved something that you thought would have brought you the happiness that you desire, but ended up wondering: Is that all there is? Have you ever pondered upon what your purpose and passion in life is? What are your “real” dreams in life?

Finally, here’s a chance for you to set a date with your dreams:

Finding Your Passion
The D.R.E.A.M Process
Re-Energise the D.R.E.A.M Process
Review Your Dreams
“Board Breaking” Mindset
Persuasion & Influence
How to build instant rapport with anybody
Forming your Alliance Network
Components of Commission

Date: 7 Feb 2009 (Saturday)
Time: 2.00 pm to 5.00 pm
Venue: Hong Kah North Community Club, 30 Bukit Batok Street 31

Tel: 6567 4048
Email: info@hkntmc.org

Registration fee: $15.00 (refreshment included)

Please register by 1 February 2009

For more information on “Dating your Dreams”, please visit us at www.datingyourdreams.com.

Your Attitude determines your Altitude!

It is more often your attitude, rather than your aptitude, that’s going to determine your altitude. Here’s how we can succeed in life with a positive mental attitude:

1) Focus on the positive not the negative
Nothing in life has any meaning except the meaning we give it. Do you automatically think the worst? Work on eliminating negative dialogue from your mind. Seek out the positive in the situation. A negative outlook is toxic.

2) Don’t act on impulse
Take time to study through things carefully. Faith should be blended with wisdom. Always consider the facts, never allowing your personal feelings to distort your interpretation.

3) Use creative visualization.
Focus on your desired outcome. You must be able to see, feel, taste, smell and hear your success as if it has already taken place. As the bible states, “whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it and it will be yours.”

4) Endurance
If there’s a will, there’s a way. It may sometimes require you to take a few steps back along the journey in reaching your destination. While persistence means a constant struggle forward against opposition, endurance means possessing even the flexibility of moving backwards (away from your goals) at point of times. This doesn’t mean you give up - you are just waiting for the right opportunity and condition to take action!

The Power of Positive Thinking!

Never underestimate the power of positive thinking… You can use positive thinking to help achieve anything that you would like to achieve!

Here is a typical story told about a man. Working for a company, Joe was trying to use the money to pay his bills and pay his way for further education. Unfortunately one day something not too pleasant happened, he got fired from his job and was utterly disappointed.

However one day he found out that it was not that he was doing anything bad it is just that the company had to lay off a number of people and he happened to be one of them. After hearing this he was quite depressed however he was reading some positive thinking books which helped him change the way that he was feeling about his situation.

He realized that the job had given him some wonderful exposure and something beneficial that he could add to his resume. Thus he was motivated to find another job, believing that he’s going to land a better job this time. Sure enough, a company rang him up a couple of weeks later, offering him the “perfect” job he had been searching for.

I am certain you have heard of similar stories as such. Sometimes you must realize that even though something bad happens in your life something positive is sure to follow if you stay positive. Whatever you focus on becomes a reality!